2020-07-12

Closed the thirty-seventh day. A After the rain, the air was humid and the clouds were still raining. A Before the retreat, someone came to me to spread the word that a colleague sneered at me in the group. Named me”chicken soup”,”brainwashing”,”cutting leek” and so on. A As if the public are ignorant, only he is a wise man. A For more than half a year, I kept my promise on Weibo and did not take advantage of the heat to make a penny. So cutting the leek is just some people’s imagination. A Big

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Thirty-seventh day of retreat.
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After the rain, the air was humid and the clouds were still raining.
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Before the retreat, someone came to me to spread the word that a fellow in the group sneered at me. Named me”chicken soup”,”brainwashing”,”cutting leek” and so on.
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As if the public are ignorant, only he is a wise man.
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For more than half a year, I kept my promise on Weibo and did not take advantage of the heat to make a penny. So cutting the leek is just some people’s imagination.
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Everyone can look up to me and respect me, not that I have any rhetoric. However, I am still a well-behaved person. I have kept the original and updated for several years. I have kept my vows and never made a penny by helping others see numerology.
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Today’s topics and cases are about respect.
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There is a bland character in the TV series”Old Tavern”, but it was brilliantly played by Mr. Niu Ben. In the play, he played a camel, an old, stubborn, and poor old man called”Lao Erliang”.
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He went to the tavern every day to drink two or two wines, but no one in the entire old tavern, from the shopkeeper to the man, disrespected and awed him.
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The reason is simple. Although he is poor, he is the most law-abiding person in the whole drama.
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He agreed with the shopkeeper to drink two or two wines a day, taking advantage of the pub’s warmth. He took a sip of wine without drinking, and then took a small piece of pickle from his arms and took a bite. He said that if a guest came, he would let out his seat and stand to drink. Even if you stand and drink, you will be under the window porch, not blocking the road and unobtrusive.
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Sometimes the guy looked at him a few years old and couldn’t bear it, so he gave him some dishes, he didn’t want to. The shopkeeper personally gave him a plate of meat, and he didn’t want it either. He said it was a broken rule.
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Sometimes he deliberately gave him one or two more wine. He joked that the shopkeeper’s hand was a scale. He piled the extra wine money into a small piece at the checkout and pressed it under the hip flask.
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Regardless of his merits, he doesn’t want to be favored by others.
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But in rainy days, the shopkeeper saw no one and wanted to go out of business. The second child just came from the rain and said that the shopkeeper had no rules.
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When you say you have to close the door, you should close it. Without customers, will there be no rules in the store?
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An impoverished old man named Hanako spoke politely and politely, making the shopkeeper and the man blush.
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Such a person, there is not much dialogue, the most shots are nothing more than standing on the porch by the pillars with a deep expression but drinking his two or two wines at a glance.
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His last scene was on a heavy rainy day, dressed in hats of fur, his strands of silver hair were wet by the rain, and his rickets were on his back. He walked back to the old hut rented a dozen miles away late at night.
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This scene moved many people, and it was even more touching than other episodes in the play.
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Why is the second child respected by people, because he has the spirit of a wise person,”The power cannot be bent, the poor cannot be moved.” This is the style and integrity.
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In the past, there was a man named Guo Sao in Qi, who came to see Yan Zi because he could not support his mother. Hoping to get food to support his mother, Yan Zi gave him money and grain, but he only received the grain and did not take Yan Zi’s money.
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Later, Yan Zi was jealous by the monarch of the State of Qi and wanted to go into exile abroad.
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So this Guo Sao walked to the prince’s palace and found the official of the ruler:”Yan Zi is a sage known to the world. If he leaves, Qi will be violated. I would like to entrust your head to clean up Yan Zi’s injustice.” After talking, he died on the spot. King Qi was so shocked that he chased Yan Zi back in his car.
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The gratitude of the adoptive mother is reported to her by fate. In the eyes of some people, this is their rule.
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Knowing the advancement and retreat, what should be taken, what should not be taken is not taken. Understand repayment, there must be compensation for grace, life-saving grace, life to return.
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This kind of rule makes people transcend stratum and wealth. Jinshan Yinhai is worthless in the light of personality.
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Back to the case I encountered.
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There is a young man with a common life, strong health and weak wealth, unscrupulous financial robbing, and partial predation. My friend’s cousin.
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He told me that he felt particularly unlucky. When he first started, the supervisor treated him well and taught him hand in hand. He felt that he was improving quickly. Not long ago he talked about a list himself, but the attitude of the supervisor always wanted the other party to make some concessions on interests. He was afraid that if he talked about it, the client would be gone. So he ran to the director and said the matter. The director did not express his opinion and perverted him a few words, saying that he would talk to their supervisor.
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But since then, people throughout the company have been cold to him. No one even called him to organize a dinner, and no one notified him at the meeting.
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In his mouth, it seemed that others were jealous of him and did not want him to grow up. I told him that skipping reporting in the workplace is the most taboo.
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He felt like he had met the villain, and the supervisor now disrespected him more and more. He did not expect that the supervisor was a man with a small belly.
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Later, I did not speak.
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Later, I heard my friend say that his cousin might be spoiled at home. When he was a child, he even started to fight with his father. When something went wrong, he would quarrel with his father, calling him a waste.
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I have met many bosses who worked hard from the bottom, and some”persons” who used to be mixed in the society. These people have bad backgrounds, and some do not even have academic qualifications, but they do not affect others’ respect for them.
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I can see from these people that although there are all kinds of cunning and courageousness, even some people are ruthless. But without exception, they all have their own rules. Tell the rules and keep the rules so that they can survive in this world.
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Many young people do not have experience, and always feel that their dissatisfaction is that others discriminate themselves, and they always take the comfort of”do not bully the young and poor”.
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In fact, the premise for a person to be respected is not whether the person is rich, rich but not good, and others are even more fierce when they flatter face to face. With power and no virtue, the common people poked their backbones and would not say a good word about you.
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What is truly respectable is the noble quality of a person. A person who understands etiquette will give people a glance wherever he goes. An unruly person who wears gold and silver only makes people sneer.
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Summarized in one sentence:Respect is not what others owe you, but you earned it yourself. On the one hand, we must understand the rules, on the one hand, we must have strength.

getInterUrl?uicrIvZQ=619011b5653b57f767a03ed37117fc7a - Closed the thirty-seventh day.
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After the rain, the air was humid and the clouds were still raining.
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Before the retreat, someone came to me to spread the word that a colleague sneered at me in the group. Named me"chicken soup","brainwashing","cutting leek" and so on.
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As if the public are ignorant, only he is a wise man.
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For more than half a year, I kept my promise on Weibo and did not take advantage of the heat to make a penny. So cutting the leek is just some people's imagination.
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