Grandpa said:Those who have tasted these three kinds of suffering will be truly mature and make sense
In the evening, Grandpa took me to take a walk on the tree-lined trail. At this time, the setting sun has become thin Xishan. Looking at the golden sunset, Grandpa suddenly sighed long. I know that Grandpa is hurting again. Every time my grandfather was not happy, I also got upset. Therefore, I am reluctant to walk out with my grandfather in the evening. Grandpa is a sentimental person. Whenever he sees the sunset, he will express some emotions.
Grandpa said that people’s lives are always accompanied by suffering, and only those who have tasted these three kinds of sufferings can be considered truly mature. So, what do the three kinds of suffering mentioned by grandpa refer to? And listen to me slowly.
The first kind of suffering:the suffering of no stable occupation.
Grandpa said that for those of us who have no mines, unemployment is really a terrible thing. Because it will make our lives a mess.
Life is alive. Only by having a proper job can we solve the problem of food and clothing and maintain the normal operation of this family.
Some people may say that I don’t have a stable job, even if I am unemployed, it doesn’t matter, because I have extra money and can cope with life Overhead. Thinking this way is a bit unrealistic. Because, this thing is very unstable. There may be many today, but not tomorrow. However, we have to eat and drink Lhasa every day, and we have to spend money. Many people are extravagant and wasteful when they are rich, and they are drunk nowadays, and when they are not rich, they are not as good as beggars. How can such an unstable living method be reliable?
So, Even if we earn quick money in a certain period of time, we must have a stable and legitimate job. In this way, when we are disappointed and frustrated, we will not suffer from hunger and starvation.
The second kind of suffering:the suffering of being deceived by a friend.
Grandpa said that it is better to be faithful than to have no friends. To communicate with people, you can never absolutely trust a person, even if he is a brother of his own milk sibling, or a friend who is close to himself.
In our decades of human growth, we always make friends of all kinds. For those friends who are fox friends, we know how to alienate in time, and for those friends who can be regarded as confidants, we will be intimate. Nevertheless, we will still be deceived by them.
Maybe, those friends have some unspeakable secrets, but we are deceived, after all, it is a fact. The taste of being deceived is really uncomfortable! In many cases, being cheated of money and swindles is a trivial matter, but being cheated by others can be more uncomfortable than a thousand knives.
Grandpa emphasized that people are separated by their hearts, whether they are brothers or children, and they still have to have a basic defensive mentality. Otherwise, it would be good not to lose money. Once you lose money, it will be a big loss. This life will be very painful.
So, friends should make friends, but only to keep their bottom line, even if they have a”deep relationship”, they can’t”know nothing, speak endlessly”.
The third kind of suffering:the pain of losing love.
Grandpa said, For decades, he was not afraid of the wind and rain, nor the cold, but he always turned his head on the word”love”. Actually, falling in love is a process that many people will go through. The key is how to see your own heart.
Some people have trapped themselves, even when they are 40 or 50 years old, they still can’t get out of the pain of falling in love, even if they have already established a family, but in the depths of his heart, he will never forget the soul that makes him soulful. People who are dreaming.
Obviously love, but can’t be with her. Seemingly rich life, worry-free food and clothing, but not happy at all. Such a person actually lives very sad and very painful.
Perhaps at the moment of”immortal”, you can truly understand that what you have lost for so many years is happiness within reach. . Unfortunately, everything is too late.
Love in the world or hate, only to realize that the moment is about to become a loess, these are all empty. Knowing this, why bother?
So, The pain of falling out of love is actually self-seeking, as long as you can open your mind a little bit and grab the happiness that you can reach. At that time we will find out that broken relationships are another kind of beauty.
What do you think of these three kinds of sufferings that my grandpa said? In real life, have you suffered or are suffering from these pains? Please leave a message in the comment area.