There are three types of marriage modes. Let’s take a look at what kind of marriage status you are in now!
To judge whether a person is happy or not depends on the success of the person’s marriage. Every family’s life pattern must be different, and your family status at home represents your living conditions. After marriage Living in harmony will naturally lead to a happier life. The current common marriage modes can be roughly divided into three types, one is torture marriage; the other is partnership marriage; the other is rest-of-life marriage.
First of all, it’s a torture marriage. This kind of marriage is full of quarrels, and even this kind of quarrel will be regardless of time and occasion. The way to resolve conflicts between husband and wife is quarrel. Although it is said that proper quarrel is conducive to the character of the husband and wife, if a little bit If minor problems must be resolved by quarreling, then the relationship between husband and wife will gradually break down. It is very exhausting to live in the quarrel and smoke every day. The family itself is a place to relax, but if you return home every day If you are greeted by endless quarrels, what is the meaning of this family?
Family rooms will definitely exist more or less Quarrel, this quarrel should also be controlled within the normal range. Both spouses must have a yardstick in their hearts and know how to measure them. Don’t quarrel and destroy the relationship between husband and wife for a little bit of trivial matters. They must learn to communicate appropriately and resolve them in communication. Contradiction, avoid consuming each other’s emotions in endless quarrels.
Then there is a partnership marriage. In the “Three The life pattern of Zhong Xiaoqin in “Ten Only” perfectly explains the term partnership marriage. When two people are husband and wife, they are actually more like roommates sharing a house. They don’t care about each other. I live my life and you’re busy. Work, even if two people are at home at the same time, I eat my meal, you are busy with your work, do not wash clothes together, do not have the habit of waiting for each other when eating, etc. What is the difference between such a marriage model and not getting married? Roommates would eat together and wash clothes together. No wonder Zhong Xiaoqin once envied Gu Jia’s clothes at home.
The life of a partnership marriage will look very It’s boring. Since you’ve worked so hard to find someone to spend a lifetime, you should be responsible for this marriage instead of just putting this relationship here and letting it develop at will. This kind of married life and a person’s life There is no difference in life. The two people in a marriage lack communication and communication, and over time they will develop into a roommate-like relationship. Such a life is not happy.
Finally is the rest-life marriage, which the ancients followed According to the words of a parent’s order, free love is popular nowadays. It is not easy to find someone who can spend the rest of your life together. It’s not easy to find someone who knows the cold, the hot, and understands you. , We can often see enviable old men and women on various platforms, envious of their way of getting along, envious of their love can last so long, a lifetime of so long, we must find someone who understands you, loves you, People who love you spend the rest of their lives.
The rest of your life is the happiest marriage. The most relaxed marriage model. In this kind of marriage, there will be no grievances from one party. The husband and wife know how to give to each other. Others say that marriage is the tomb of love, and it is also the home of love. When a marriage becomes the home of love , Then it shows that this love is correct and can spend the rest of life together.