After 40 years old, why do most women choose to sleep with their husbands in separate beds
Both husbands and wives should sleep in the same bed. Isn’t this justified, shouldn’t it be the case? Then why many women after the age of 40 insist on separating and sleeping with their husbands. Why?
- Time will dilute the feelings, we have each other The sense of distance is good.
At first, when a woman and a man got married, they were tired of being together every day. They were really inseparable. They would chat with each other every night, and they would never get bored anyway. At that time, I felt that we were very busy, and we had to draw up a list of money to spend, but my husband and I felt that the days were very sweet.
Slowly, the two formed a small The family also has a baby, and then there are a lot of trivial things such as taking care of the children and going to work. When the baby grows up, the two couples are also old. At this time, everyone is in their 40s, and they have already passed the age when they were young. At this time, the two parties are also a little tired of each other because of staying together for a long time. At this time, sleeping in separate beds and sleeping in separate rooms is conducive to nurturing the feelings between each other.
- At the end of marriage, it is all necessary Be yourself
Everyone has their own personal habits more or less. It is not easy for two people to form a family together and tolerate each other. My husband and I started to split rooms last year. I don’t know why. In the past two years, when my husband slept, he snored like thunder. Sleeping in the same house with him was nothing short of suffering. I really couldn’t sleep listening to the sound of snoring, and I always fell asleep when I was too tired.
After a long time, I’m going to crash, I I told my husband to divide the room with him. At first, he said that I would find a reason to leave him. Then I recorded his snoring sound. When he woke up to listen to him, he also felt that the sound was too loud and embarrassed me. . In this way, he also accepted the division of the room with me, but it did not affect the relationship between me and him. I and him are still as good as before.
Spouses should be considerate and understand each other , Caring for each other, so that we can walk hand in hand for a lifetime, even if we sleep together in different beds, we will not affect each other’s feelings. And finally, at the end of marriage, you need freedom, you need to be your own, and find the most suitable life state for you.