Marriage: After getting married, will a man mind a woman’s cohabitation history?
Modern society advocates equality between men and women and freedom of marriage. I don’t know when it’s been common for both sexes to live together. It doesn’t matter whether the two will join hands in the marriage hall in the future, but this does not affect the cohabitation of the two. So after married men, would they mind a woman who has a history of cohabitation?
The answer is definitely not only a mind , And will mind very much, a woman who has had a history of cohabitation, after marriage, perhaps a man will not say anything in front of you, but secretly, your cohabitation history is like a thorn in his heart. It kept echoing in his mind.
The editor has a very close girlfriend , I cohabited with a boy of the same family who was chasing her when I was a freshman. In fact, my best friend didn’t want to live with others at first, but that boy often took my best friend out to play with him, and came around after class. With her, I would bring her some supper as soon as I had time, and after two days, my girlfriend was slowly taken down by others.
I don’t know what happened later, my girlfriend I agreed to live with that boy. After all, according to my idea, girls should cherish and love themselves, and don’t live with a boy unless the boy will really marry you, and obviously the boy who chased my girlfriend didn’t plan to Marrying her, after all, they are only freshmen now, they are still far from getting married, and there are so many variables in life. Who would have thought that the once-deterred love will suddenly become worthless one day!
It’s just that my girlfriend didn’t listen to me in the end Advised that the two had lived together for a year. When Saturday and Sunday were on vacation, my girlfriend was called out by her boyfriend, or watched a movie, or had a meal together. In short, the boy always had a variety of things. This kind of reason took my girlfriends out to live together. It’s just that the good times didn’t last long. After the two lived together for a year, they broke up. I remember that after breaking up that day, my girlfriend cried for me for a whole day. When I got up the next day, my eyes were still red and swollen. Paying too much for a useless love is actually not worth it.
Men are very possessive , A woman who doesn’t like her has been warned by others, and once a man owns this woman, it is easy to start to get bored, just like a small girlfriend, it didn’t take long for the man to get bored with her, and then proposed to break up. And my girlfriend did not find the happiness that belonged to her in her later life and marriage. Although the man loved her very much after marriage, her husband could not accept it because of her cohabitation history.
In her husband’s view, I spent Hundreds of thousands of gifts, buy a house, buy a car, and then come to marry you, but you are not complete. Marrying a woman with a history of cohabitation is like eating the leftovers of others, which makes him very unbalanced, so that he is sometimes in a bad mood When, she always finds fault with her.
Women don’t like men to do anything in advance. In the relationship, men are also selfish and do not want women to advance their boyfriends. Women are different. Women can’t keep talking in their hearts. Women like to compare the incumbent with the predecessor. From time to time, they still say a few things, “You are not as good as that, who, who”, “You are not as good as my predecessor.” “.
Men also need a sense of security, women Having a history of cohabitation often makes men very insecure. Men are very mindful that women have a history of cohabitation. Therefore, I would like to advise every woman in the world to take care of yourself, cherish and love yourself. When you will step into the marriage hall, don’t hand over yourself so quickly.