Marriage breaks up and emotional divergence, why more and more middle-aged women choose to betray their marriages
We believe that love is sacred. In our best years, each of us has been tirelessly pursuing love. However, after we set up a family, when we are tired of the depressed marriage life after marriage, we choose Betrayal of love, betrayal of marriage, what is this?
- Long-term separation, poor life To contentment
Whether it is a man or a woman, in the beginning, when facing love, they gave each other wholeheartedly without private trust. Later, the two married and married, and the couple was absolutely loyal to the family, but In order to make more money to cope with the more expenses that the family will need to pay in the future, men have to excluding work, and women have to take care of the elderly at home.
Not seeing for a few months may be fine, but time After a long period of time, they are not physically satisfied with each other, coupled with the long-term separation, there is little communication between each other. The lack of communication is the biggest barrier between husband and wife. Gradually, the relationship begins to alienate. What is there? I like to hide things and don’t share them with each other.
- Unsatisfied material life< /p>
No matter how beautiful love is, it will eventually move towards life. Life is the foundation of marriage stability and the foundation of harmony in love. Whether it is a man or a woman, the reason for betraying marriage is nothing but the pressure of life. But I can’t solve it, so I hope the other half, when the other half can’t make too much money, and give her (him) full material life enjoyment in the same way, the marriage between each other is prone to divergence.
At this time, when family members see it outside When a person of the opposite sex who can make a lot of money chases himself, it is easy to have marriage divergence. Men cheat on impulse. They want to find a new love and find some fun. Women mostly love vanity, especially after middle age. Due to family and personal factors, I chose to betray feelings for material needs. In short, in marriage, there is no absolute loyalty regardless of whether it is a man or a woman.
Every one of us is a social creature, we The reason why we will find our partner to start a family and start a business is because we hope that we can be taken care of by someone when we are sick, and we can eat fragrant rice when we are hungry, someone can share happiness with us when we are happy, and someone can share the pressure for us when our work is not going well. However, when we get married, we are still lonely as always, so it is only a matter of time before we betray the marriage.
The purpose of our marriage is not to have a The other half of the talk, support each other and join hands to grow old? If we live apart all the time, or even if we are together, do our own things, and then go home together to meet our parents during the holidays, then what is the difference between this kind of marriage and living alone? No one cares about yourself, this kind of marriage, absolutely Will go to ruin.
Whether it is a man or a woman in life, since Come together and form a family, then the two people must be worthy of each other, cherish this relationship, and protect this hard-won marriage. Remember not to betray your marriage, thus hurting your family and those who love you.