When a man marries a wife, there are three not to marry, remember to keep your eyes open
Warren Buffett once said: The best investment for a man in his life is to choose the right wife!
A woman’s biggest investment is to find a good man, and the most successful investment for a man is also to find the best woman. Behind a successful man is often a silent supporter. , Encourage his woman,
- Often Women who sarcasm and expose shortcomings can’t want
Women who often sarcasm with their husbands and like to expose their husbands’ shortcomings must never marry. Why do I want to say this? I must understand the nature of marriage What is it, the essence of marriage is that two loving people work together to form a family, and they are willing to contribute to the family together, share the wind and rain, make the family members happier and the family better and better.
A long-term exposure to his husband’s shortcomings, sarcasm Woman, will you go with the old public? Obviously impossible, let alone helping her husband and supporting his career, let alone giving something to the family formed by two people. Such a woman, who is typically selfish and has a bad stomach, is the easiest way to do it because of her husband. Not good, and resentment towards her husband.
Besides, marry one such Wives will severely impact a man’s self-esteem. If things go on like this, men will look around, whether they are in the workplace or start a business, and are afraid of everything. Such a man will find it difficult to succeed in anything in society.
2 I like to let relatives and friends comment, in Women who talk about family affairs in public
Women have simple minds, simple goals, and a lot of talk. Many women have one characteristic. They are a little wronged at home and like to talk about family affairs in public. , I like to cry about these things in front of my husband’s relatives and friends. As a result, good things don’t go out and bad things spread for thousands of miles. If something happens at home, it will spread immediately, so that everyone knows that your husband and wife are unhappy.
The so-called family affairs are not exaggerated. People will not just laugh at your husband, but stand up for you. They will only watch you toss like a lively show. On the contrary, they will laugh at you two. Therefore, a woman who is a wife will not promote her family to outsiders. In the matter, if there is any contradiction, the husband and wife should discuss and solve it. This is the root of family harmony, not outsiders intervening.
- Lazy women who are not economically independent< /p>
Economic independence is a requirement given to our women by the society of the new era. Don’t be a moonlight clan, and don’t quit your job once you get married, and then stay at home with peace of mind, waiting for the man to support you. A woman must know how to be independent, you are also a part of the family, you must know how to make money, and you must live with your husband for the better, so that the family will get better and better.
The editor believes that a harmonious family requires two Individuals work hard together. Of course, if you and your husband are in a good family situation, you don’t need to rely on struggle to meet basic life needs, and it doesn’t matter if a woman doesn’t work after marriage. But if you and your husband are born into an ordinary family like me, then after marriage, a woman only knows to take but not to give, then your husband will be crushed by you sooner or later, and if you two fight together, your life will be better every day. A good day.