When a person is middle-aged, being kind and soft is harming himself
The ancients have long told us ~ Being kind and soft is a curse!
Especially for a middle-aged person, no matter how kind to anyone, you can only make your own death worse!
People are middle-aged~especially men, money must not be borrowed. Except for their own children, they must be vigilant to anyone. Those who should refuse must be resolutely refused, and they must not leave a little for the other person. Hope, especially those single men, only if the money is in your hands, you will have confidence!
When people reach middle age, they must decisively refuse those unreasonable helpers, even if they are close to each other!
When people reach middle age, they must stay away from those women who are unpredictable, especially those who are coquettish and slutty, and they must stay away, otherwise, they will cause trouble to the upper body.
People have reached middle age~especially men. For anyone, anything, you must never be merciful. Those who should refuse must be resolutely rejected. Money is only spent on those who love you, and money must be held firmly. Grab it in your own hands!
For a middle-aged person~especially a man, the only confidence~is to hold money!